Every horse enthusiast can remember their very first time riding a horse. It’s one of the best memories. Unless you were extremely young and cannot remember the feeling, that very first ride was exhilarating and sealed the deal on the love of riding. Whether you were ten years old or fifty during that first ride, it was an experience that won’t leave you. For those enthusiasts that are about to embark on the magical journey of riding a horse for the first time, it’s important to remember that while magical, it can also appear very easy and straightforward from the outside.

While the ease of riding can be deceiving from the ground or from the stands, it’s a good idea to brush up on the do’s and do not’s of riding for the first time.

First and foremost, do not under any circumstances hop on a horse (with or without a saddle) alone and with absolutely no one to guide or watch over you. It doesn’t matter how old you are, how athletic you are, or how long you’ve “been around” horses. Riding is a totally different ball game than just leading one.

It’s imperative that you have someone with riding experience to teach you during your rides. This way, you’ll learn correctly the first time and you remain safe as you become a better rider. Do consider investing in lessons too, as they are always a good idea.

Second, do not feel embarrassed during your first ride or any ride after that. This can be especially true if you are an adult and you’re just starting out. Everyone had to start at the beginning, which means we’ve all had those awkward moments, made mistakes, gotten frustrated, not understood what you’re supposed to do, or even fallen off. It happens and will happen again. Even the most seasoned riders have flubs and mess up. So do not take it to heart or let it stop you from continuing.

Third, do find the right horse to start with. Not every horse is created equal, especially for that first riding experience. A good starting horse is a horse you can learn on without the worry of them being skittish or running at the first sign of plastic bag blowing in the wind. Your first riding horse should be reliable, responsive, and have some sense.

Fourth, do take the time to wear the right gear. That means wearing the right boots, the right pants, the right shirt, the right helmet, and maybe more depending on your needs. It’s not the time or place to skimp and just toss on a pair of old tennis shoes or that bike helmet that’s been aging in your garage.

Fifth, do be ready to listen to your adviser, be ready to be brave, and be ready to trust. Riding a horse is a team sport, between you and the animal. And being able to trust not only your teacher to lead you in the right direction but also trusting your horse to take you there is the recipe to success.

And finally, don’t forget that while these first few rides can be intimidating or come with a lot of knowledge to remember, the important thing is to have fun and enjoy yourself. You’re actually riding a horse! Go you! Because that’s a big, fantastic, accomplishment.